Make Your Own Soap Without Lye (You’ll See What I Mean)

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If you've always wanted to make soap but are worried about working with lye, here's your answer. This homemade lye-free soap is truly the “I'm scared to work with lye” version of How to Make Homemade Soap.

homemade melt and pour soap without lye molded in flower shapes.

Homemade soap is great for many reasons, but it can be a bit daunting to make. One of the reasons is the need to work with lye. It's definitely not something you want to be working with when you have little ones running around.

Thankfully there's an answer for that and I'm sure you'll be surprised at how easy it is and how gorgeous the results can be.

I Was a Lye Scaredy Cat

For years, I've wanted to make my own soap, but I've never done it.

I've drooled over others' homemade soap creations and felt deficient in my thriftiness, craftiness, and domestic skills, simply because I'd never. made. soap. 

I have fond memories of a dear friend in the Chicago area who made HUGE batches of olive oil soap that was TO DIE FOR.  She had enough money to buy whatever soap she wanted, but she just LOVED making soap and well, her soap was skin nourishing gorgeous.  

She gifted me this soap when I was pregnant with our first child, but I wrote off making it because no way was I going to use lye in a kitchen where I'd have to time things so I didn't have a busy and inquisitive infant or toddler underfoot.  

So I basically gave up all the soap-making dreams, and they never really came to be.

I even found the very book that my friend's soap recipe came from at a second hand store (and bought it), but I STILL never made soap.

So when a friend approached me about sharing a recipe for melt and pour soap that was easily made into “homemade soap” style, I was thrilled.

I assumed many other busy “lye scaredy cat” moms would love the chance to be crafty without being around something that might be a problem for their children's safety.

Lye-free Soap. Is It Possible?

Would you like to create an all natural product, free of harsh chemicals, that radiates your personality and taste? Consider hand-milled soap!

Also known as melt and pour soap, this method allows you to forgo the hazards of working with caustic lye, while enjoying the creativity of soap making.

This is why the title of the post includes the words “you'll see what I mean.”  The lye work has been done for you already in making the melt and pour soap base.

Why You'll Love This Soap

There are simply so many reasons to love this soap. Let's count the ways, shall we?

No Toxic Additives

So many soaps on the market are loaded with artificial colors, artificial fragrances, and preservatives. If you make your own melt-and-pour soaps, you can use quality ingredients without the toxins.

Saves Lots of Money

Of course, if you make your own melt and pour soap, you will save a bunch of money over store-bought fancy soaps. With all the great melt-and-pour bases, you can make exquisite soaps to rival any “artisan” type of homemade soap.

Avoids Allergens

More and more people have sensitivities these days. Making your own soap allows you to customize ingredients to your needs.

Directions

Grate the soap base.

grated soap in pot.

Add oil to soap, if desired.

Heat on low setting in a double boiler or crock pot. Stir frequently.

melted melt and pour soap in bowl with spatula.

When liquefied, remove from heat.

Add desired ingredients.

Stir to desired consistency. Pour (or spoon) the soap mixture into molds.  I placed some dried rose petals on the bottom of this flower mold.

making homemade soap without lye in flower molds.

Cool and remove from the mold. Cut into desired sizes and shapes using a soap cutter or a food scraper/shovel if needed.

Allow soap to dry.

easy homemade soap without lye with dried herbs on top.

Important Ingredient Information

1. Soap Bases, Including One That Really Stands Out

First of all, look for soap that is free of chemicals and fragrances. The simpler the better when it comes to hand milling. White or cream-colored work best.

Some of the more trusted online sources include:

  • Brambleberry
  • Bulk Apothecary
  • Amazon

Here are some options for melt-and-pour soap bases with my favorite highlighted at the end.

I Recommend

Shea Butter - 2 Pound Melt and Pour Soap Base

This Shea Butter Melt and Pour Soap Base is one of the cleanest soap bases out there. Plus it helps you create soaps that look very close to artisan soaps -- all without handling lye!

It's made from 5% refined shea butter, and is soy free, lathers well and is made in the USA.

2. Molds

A simple bread loaf pan will work depending on how much soap you're melting. Line the mold with parchment paper for easy removal.

Silicone molds work really well too. These come in fun shapes and sizes like this flower mold (similar to the one used for the soaps in this post).

Note that you'll need parchment paper if you choose the bread mold pan option.

3. Herbs and Plants

Do you love lavender? Dried lavender or fresh lavender makes a perfect addition.

Roses? Dried rose petals or even fresh rose petals work beautifully.

Plant powders can add not only skin benefits but double as natural colorants. Turmeric, for example, turns the soap a lovely orange while adding nourishing anti-inflammatory qualities. Spirulina powder makes a lovely green. Beet powder adds a nice pink color.

4. Pure Fragrances

Forgo the petroleum-based fragrances and add scent using 100% natural essential oils. Essential oils carry through the hand milling process quite well –  so pick a scent you enjoy and have fun!

Herb/essential oil combinations that work well include:

How Much Essential Oil Should You Add to Soap?

How much essential oils you use in homemade soap depends on several things including how strong of a scent you would like, and the oil you are using.

For a strong scent, 0.7 ounces of essential oil per pound of cold process soap is a good amount. For melt and pour, you can typically add 0.3 ounces per pound.

Cold process soap is more of a harsh process and there are a number of chemical changes that occur when making the soap, so you can use more oils.

To avoid skin irritation it's important to not use too much of an essential oil in your soap. This fragrance calculator can help you choose the right amount of essential oils to use.

5. Liquids

You'll need to add a slight amount of liquid to keep the soap from burning during the melting process.  While water works fine, possible liquids that add some nice benefits and make your soap special include coffee, green tea, kombucha, infused herbs, coconut milk, and floral hydrosol.

6. Fun Add-Ins

Besides things like herbs and plants, there are so many other fun add-ins. The sky is truly the limit!

How about:

  • coffee beans
  • cacao nibs
  • coffee grounds—smell great and are great for exfoliating too
  • citrus peels
  • seeds (chia, poppy, apricot, flax)
  • matcha powder—adds a lovely green color
  • Himalayan salt—adds a nice pink hue
  • tea leaves
flower-shaped soap without lye

How to Make Homemade Soap Without Lye

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Ingredients

Instructions

  • Grate 8 ounces of the soap base (two regular size bars.) A cheese grater works well, as does a salad shooter. A food processor also works.
  • Add the oil, if desired, to thin the soap.
  • Heat on low in a double boiler or crock pot. You can also place in oven-safe pot and heat in the oven at lowest setting. Stir frequently to avoid burning. This can take anywhere from 15 minutes to an hour.
  • When soap is liquefied, remove from heat. It will be somewhat lumpy and translucent.
  • Add desired ingredients.
    (For the main photos here, I used Pink Himalayan salt and dried rose petals from my daughter's wedding. I added Rose Geranium essential oil which created a lovely rose scent.)
  • Stir to desired consistency. Pour (or spoon) soap mixture into molds.  I placed some dried rose petals on the bottom of this flower mold.
  • Cool the soap and remove from mold (place mold into freezer for up to 1 hour to make this easier). Cut into desired sizes and shapes using a soap cutter or a food scraper/shovel.
  • Allow soap to dry for several days or more.
  • Dry the soap thoroughly between uses to extend its life.
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Andrea Fabry

Andrea is a former journalist and the mother of nine children ranging in age from 28 to 12. Following a toxic mold exposure, Andrea and her family discovered the wonders of natural living. Andrea is the founder and president of momsAWARE, an educational organization designed to empower others to live healthy in a toxic world. You can follow her family’s journey at It Takes Time.

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  1. I think all this back-and-forth on the issue of what this article is really about could be solved by a simple renaming of the page.

    Instead of “How to make homemade soap without lye” or “Make your own soap without lye” it would be accurate, and helpful to your readers, if it was labeled “How to hand mill soap” or “How to craft personalized soaps”

    Just my two cents.

    1. Thanks for the suggestion. I am not sure what that would do – in any case, my point, and the author’s, was to help those who are nervous about using lye. Does that make sense? Thanks again.

  2. Sorry, this is soap crafting – NOT soap making….. AND , there is no lye in soap! Lye & oils are combined in an exacting balance to create a chemical reaction that produces soponification and the by product, glycerine. …. which commercial manufacturers extract to make lotions to sell back to you, because soap is drying ….. NOT! Thank you for allowing to share my knowledge, as a Tallow Chandler for many years with a Living History organization, I made sure I was well informed on the history of soap making, and the commercialization of the industry. The finest, purest soap to be had is homemade, from scratch – there are lots of online calculators to help you formulate the soap of your dreams!

    1. Hi there. and thanks for commenting. I don’t think the statement was made that there is lye in soap, but that lye is typically used in making soap. Perhaps I am mistaken? Maybe I am confused. I’m not sure what you mean by NOT about the soap being drying. Thanks in advance for your explanation :).

      1. There have been commercials and advertisements for years touting that ‘soap is drying to your skin’ or that ‘soap leaves behind a film’ – which is accurate for commercially produced soaps (because they’ve removed the glycerine to make body lotions to sell you because the soap is drying your skin). The by-product of soponification is glycerine – which in homemade soap is retained in the final product, thereby helping your skin to be clean & soft! The comment has been repeated in many of the postings in this thread, that there is lye ‘in’ the soap – which there is not. Do you offer a friend a slice of raw egg with sugar & flour? No, those items are combined in a balance that produces CAKE (and its by-product: calories!) – just like soapmaking….

        1. HI Robbin. I just went though all of the comments (I think) and I only saw one by the post author that talked about lye being in soap – so perhaps I am missing something? Thanks!

      2. Pure soap, with all of its naturally occurring glycerine, is not drying.

        Many soaps on the market have their glycerine removed, which is what makes them drying. And, as Robbin stated, they sell the extracted glycerine back to you in the form of lotions.

        So they’re essentially creating a need for a product, then selling it to you twice.

  3. How many specific drops will I put? I am using peppermint, so how many will do if I will make a bar big as an ordinary soap bar?

    1. I am sorry I missed this – do you still need an answer? I can try to reach Andrea if need be. Sorry :).

  4. I love this, why everyone asks, I wanted to make soaps for gifts but currently I’m not living in a place where working with lye is not possible, so I thought that giving personalized soaps would not be possible, but with this recipe, I can still do it, I do have a question I do know that ivory isn’t natural but can I use it in this recipe, I don’t have a lot of money and really don’t have the funds to buy 4 of the good soaps I’d like to get.

    1. I am not sure – sorry this took so long for me to get to. I will see if Andrea can drop by to answer you. Take care!

    2. You can try with Ivory. It’s not super fatted like most natural soaps so it might not melt quite as well – but it’s worth a shot!

  5. I have been wanting to make soap, but I have been afraid to use the lye, and I am so glad I find your site. I can’t wait to make my soap now. Thank you, and have a Happy Thanksgiving. Rosie

  6. How nice of you. Thank you for being respectful, it really means a lot!
    And yes, there are two different kinds/ways to make it. So if you buy melt and pour at say, hobby lobby it’s going to have sodium laureth sulfate in it along with other synthetics and surfectants. It isn’t real soap.
    However, you can buy melt and pour from a place like bramble berry (or other places online I’m sure) which from looking at their ingredients list is actual soap made with lye. So I wondered how they made it meltable and transpernt and I looked around and apparently you can make your own melt and pour by boiling cold process soap in alcohol (I’m sure there’s a little more to it than that but that’s the gist). So if I personally did melt and pour I would make sure the ingrdients list either says “lye”, “sodium hydroxide” or “saponified oils of” and does not say sodium laureth sulfate or anything similar. That way it’s as close to the real thing as possible!
    I personally don’t have anything against melt and pour I understand why people do it and I think it can be very aesthetically pleasing. I just don’t make it because I have the dryest skin on earth and need that superfat! haha But a lot of people begin learning with melt and pour. For me as long as they understand that melt and pour is made with lye too then I don’t care! Whatever you like doing and whatever makes you happy.

    1. Thank you so much. My pleasure. I don’t want to come off the wrong way at all. Thanks for your helpful comments.

  7. No disrespect but you all know that melt and pour soap you buy at the store and hand milled (or rebatched) soap are two different things, right? Melt and pour soap is usually full of surfectants. Or it’s originally real soap that has been boiled in alcohol to make it transparent and easily meltable.
    Hand milled or rebatch soap is made from a pure base of handmade cold process soap that is shaved down and re melted (sometimes you have to add a liquid- it’s harder to melt than melt and pour) and then re poured. Most hand milled soaps are rebatched because of a mistake the soaper made the first time. But there are some who only make hand milled soap. It’s a lot of work if you’re making the original cold process soap yourself and then hand milling it, although you can buy pre made rebatch blocks of soap (brambleberry has a rebatch and then several melt and pours)
    I hope I don’t come across as rude but I see the terms “melt and pour” and “hand milled/rebatched” interchanged so often and it’s frustrating. And then a lot of people hear “hand milled” and think of the soaps that big companies sell that machines mill up and they remove the glycerine and I feel like that gives it a bad name. In reality genuine hand milled soap made from scratch is a real treat. Some say it’s gentler on the skin and some people purposely make it for that reason. Also when you rebatch you can add other ingredients that may not have fully survived the saponification process and you can use less EOs or FOs to scent as the smell will be stronger.

    Also I think it was kinda rude how Debbie’s comment was received. She may have come across as a little rude-but you know that soapers are constantly being asked if there’s lye in their soap, can’t you make soap without any chemicals at all etc etc and maybe she was just frustrated because there are people that genuinely believe their melt and pour soaps are lye free, maybe she thought you were one of those people. But she didn’t attack you or anything and then Ginger said she should be on the menopause blog and you said thanks for making me smile which seems disrespectful to me. And saying she should be on a menopause blog is very sexist, it’s like asking every woman who’s upset if she’s on her period…I know it’s your blog and you can run it how you like but comments like that and your approval of them doesn’t make this blog look very welcoming. If she had cussed you out or personally insulted you Id understand but she didn’t, she just wasn’t overly polite but we all have days like that and it’s hard to tell exactly how people are saying things over the internet.
    Just something to think about, I do appreciate your blog but wanted to speak up. Thanks for your time!

    1. I had no idea about that. I have been wanting to make soap for along time and have never done it or read much about it.So the melt and pour is full of surfactants — why is that? If it’s a real soap that is boiled in alcohol is it the boiling that produces the surfactants?

      I don’t think you sound rude. I love learning but don’t always have time to do all of it :).

      I understood how Ginger thought that Debbie was being rude but I see your point as well so I responded to Ginger. I will respond to Debbie as well.

      Thanks for your comment and I will try to be more careful :).

  8. Debbie is clearly an angry and confused woman. She should be on menopause blog instead of a soap-making blog. Lighten up man.

    1. Hey Ginger. I just got a comment from someone saying that I offended them by saying your menopause comment made me smile. I can see how Debbie might have been having an “off” moment or an “off” day and I want to be charitable to my readers unless they are obviously being malicious. So anyhow, thanks for the encouragement but wanted to set the record straight. Hope to see you around again!